06.25 Update
Balancing family life and ministry life can often feel like walking a tightrope. We embrace this tension by giving both family and ministry due diligence and believing that God’s goodness is at work in the process. Recently, Chloe and Ethan have expressed their desire of making friends with English speaking kids their age and have also hinted at wanting to move to the U.S.
A visit to Iwakuni Castle
We always planned for a Japanese education up through completing elementary school and an American education for higher level through online or homeschool. What our kids are starving for is social interaction with English speakers and an added bonus, would be kids with a Christian worldview upbringing. Since moving back to the U.S. is not an option, we have been researching International Christian School options in Japan the last few months and have incorporated zoom calls with seasoned missionaries who have been through this same process.
This led us on a journey enrolling Chloe and Ethan in an English Bible Camp in Tokyo (put on a waiting list) and a stop off in Kyoto to tour Kyoto International University Academy. Two days before the actual planned trip we got word that Chloe was accepted but Ethan was not. Chloe still wanted to go even though she would be going without Ethan, so we made the 1500km (roughly 950 mile) journey. For those that know us, we like to make the most of any journey we take. To break up the drive, we stopped off at a few places where I ran last year, RUN JPN, and met with those available to meet. This made the long journey fun and meaningful outside of the International School visit and 3 night/4 day camp for Chloe.
We are at a time has come as we prepare our kids for a new season of growth. And honestly we are feeling a little unprepared and we have much to consider as we look towards their future education.
Both roles demand time, energy, and emotional investment. To maintain harmony, it's essential to establish clear boundaries and prioritize intentional time with loved ones.
Set aside specific times for family that are non-negotiable, just as you would for ministry responsibilities. Communication within the family about your ministry schedule helps manage expectations and fosters support. Remember, ministry flows best when your family feels loved and valued.
Additionally, involve your family in ministry when appropriate. This not only strengthens family bonds but also models a life of service for your children. Self-care is also crucial; you cannot pour from an empty cup. Regular rest and spiritual nourishment equip you for both family and ministry demands.
Striving for balance means being flexible and seeking God’s guidance daily. Trust that He will sustain you in fulfilling both callings with grace and joy.
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